NguJessica Yadegaran



Ukuzijuxuza kudederhu lweevenkile, umntwana oneminyaka esi-9 ubudala ogama lingu-Dream Ali-Cherry unxibe ijini emnyama ebhityileyo kunye netanki epinki yoBaby Phat eqatywe ngezikhonkwane ezinkulu ezifana nedayimane. Ejinga kwisihlahla sakhe esincinci sisipaji seJuicy Couture.

Kutshanje, iPhupha belijonge ibhulukhwe enemibala kwiMfihlo yaseVictoria. Ukwafuna iikawusi zeentlanzi. Kodwa umama wakhe, uLaPrielle Ali, uyala ukumthengela ezo zinto.





Akulunganga oko, utsho uAli, ohlala eBenicia. Ukususela ekubeni wayeneminyaka emi-5, ndiye ndazama ukumcacisela oko kufanelekile. Undinika ixesha elinzima, kodwa ekupheleni kosuku, yintetho yam.

Ngokwemvelo, abazali abafuni ukuba i-tweens yabo inxibe ngendlela evuselelayo. Akunjalo nezikolo. Kodwa uninzi lwezinto ezikwii-racks zevenkile azisondeli kwiikhowudi zokunxiba, ngoko ke ukuthenga abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kwe-13 kunokuba lucelomngeni. Ngokuphuhlayo, bakwinqanaba lokuguquka, bejonge koontanga kunye nabadumileyo bencasa, endaweni yabazali, into yokunxiba.



Badala kakhulu kwicandelo lamantombazana kwaye bahlala bebancinci kakhulu ukuba bangaphathwa ngesandla ngudade omdala, abafikisayo abafana nePhupha kujoliswe kwishishini lefashoni phakathi kweedola ezingama-43 eebhiliyoni elenza iinguqulelo zabantwana kuyo yonke into enxitywa ngabasetyhini, ukuya kuthi ga kweli nqaku leengwe. kunye neejeggings ezinqabileyo (i-denim leggings).

Umzekelo omhle ngumgca we-Material Girl wesikhumba se-punky kunye ne-lace, eyenza i-debut yayo kwinyanga edlulileyo kwi-Macy's. Intombi kaMadonna eneminyaka eyi-13 ubudala, uLourdes Leon, udunyiswa ngokuyila iimpahla, kodwa uMadonna uthe umgca uquka izinto ezingavumelekanga uLourdes ukuba azinxibe.



Ukunceda amantombazana ajamelane noluhlu olukhulu lokhetho, uPalo Alto umtshato kunye nonyango lwentsapho uCarol Campbell ucebisa abazali ukuba baqale ukumisela imithetho malunga nokuba banxibe ntoni xa intombi yabo iqala ukuba nomdla kwifashoni, nokuba ikwi-kindergarten. Iingxoxo kufuneka zibandakanye iikhonsepthi zesinxibo esilungele indawo kunye nobudala obufanelekileyo kunye neenqobo ezichasene nemiyalezo yemithombo yeendaba exhaphazayo efikelela kumantombazana.

Abazali kufuneka bafumane iindlela zokunyanzelisa imithetho engahoywanga. Iphupha u-Ali-Cherry uye waphula ikhowudi yokunxiba yesikolo kabini, kanye ngokunxiba i-tank top enemitya encinci. Kwelinye icala, wahlohla isiketi esifutshane, esiqinileyo awayesikhuphe kubhaka wakhe, wasebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela lesikolo ukutshintshela kulo.



Ukunqanda ugwayimbo lwesithathu, umama wakhe ngoku ujonga ubhaka ongacwangciswanga. Ukuba kuyenzeka kwakhona, iimpahla ziphelile, u-Ali uthi. Andifuni ukufana nomama, apho kwakungekho kulungelelaniswa, kodwa ndiya kuthatha iimpahla.

Ngokuphathelele uhambo lokuthenga, Ngokufanelekileyo, incoko kufuneka iqale ngaphambi kokuba uye kwindawo yokuthengisa, uCampbell ucebisa. Ufuna ukucacisa ukuba indlela onxiba ngayo ibonakalisa imilinganiselo yakho nezinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe.



Abazali kufuneka bagqibe kwangaphambili ukuba zeziphi iivenkile ezingenamida, utshilo uCampbell. Kwaye xa intombazana ifuna i-halter engafanelekanga okanye iifutshane ezimfutshane, uCampbell ucebisa ukuba babuze ukuba kutheni. Basenokufunda ukuba ngumbala okanye ilaphu alithandayo. Okanye impendulo yakhe isenokubonisa umbandela othile, onjengomfanekiso womzimba, ekufuneka uconjululwe.

Ngamanye amaxesha, into esisiseko njengoko kufanelekile inokuba yingxaki. UVivian Minaise wasePleasanton uthi ukuthengela intombi yakhe eneminyaka esi-8 ubudala, uKira, kunzima kuba umncinci, kwaye iimpahla ezivenkileni ezifana neJustice - ezihlawula ngokwazo njengomthengisi omkhulu wehlabathi okhethekileyo - ziqinile nkqu namantombazana. yolwakhiwo oluphakathi ukuya koluncinci.

Kodwa uMinaise ubona neminye imiba. Ininzi yempahla endivakalelwa kukuba ayimfanelanga ubudala bakhe, utsho. Ininzi kakhulu kumntwana oneminyaka esi-8 ubudala.

Utyelelo lwamva nje lwe-mall luvelise iindlela ezinje nge-sequined accessories, i-denim encinci ye-denim kubukhulu bomntwana obu-6-slim kunye neejeggings kwi-skinny cuts kakhulu.

Kutheni umntwana oneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala, enemilenze emifutshane kwaye engenazo iinqunqa, adinga i-skinnies ngokugqithiseleyo? Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba wabona uHeidi Klum ezinxibile kwiProjekthi yokubaleka, uphawula uSally Miller, umyili wefashoni waseNew Jersey obala uMalia Obama phakathi kwabathengi bakhe.

UMiller uthi xa eyila, ucinga malunga neendlela zangoku ezifana neleyisi, umgaqo weenqwelomoya owuthandayo ekwindla. Emva koko uphinda atolike ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo kwaye ezifanelekileyo kwimarike yakhe. Uhlala emema oomama beemodeli zakhe estudio ukuze bafumane impendulo yabo.

Amaxesha amaninzi, abo mama baba segumbini kunye nathi, kwaye ndiyababuza, ‘Ningamvumela ukuba ashiye indlu kule nto?’ utsho uMiller, ingqokelela yakhe yokuwa iquka iikhati ezisikiweyo kunye neelokhwe ze-empire-waist. Kodwa uyongeza, ndicinga ukuba kubalulekile ukuvumela intombazana ukuba ikhethe ubuhle bayo kwaye iphonononge ukuba ingubani.

UCampbell akanakuxabana naloo mbono. Ucebisa ukuba abazali bakhuthaze abantu ababini ukuba bavakalise iimvakalelo zabo malunga nelizwe lempahla yabantu abadala - ngasese. Bangadlala isinxibo, utshilo. Bavumele benze izimonyo kunye nobucwebe kunye nezithende eziphakamileyo ekhaya. Ibanika ithuba elimangalisayo lokuzama iindima kwiingcinga zabo.

Kwikhaya lasePiedmont losapho lweSilver, uSydney oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala uyakuthanda ukunxiba iimpahla ze-hoochie - ibhulukhwe encinci eshushu, iiplatifomu zengwenkala ezisetyenzisiweyo - kwaye uzenze ngathi ungumculi odumileyo. Kulungile nomama wakhe kuba kubucala kwikhaya labo.

Bayaqonda ukuba ukubonisa imizimba yabo esidlangalaleni akunamandla afanelekileyo, utsho uPaula Sullivan Silver, ethetha ngoSydney kunye nentombi endala uMadison, oneminyaka eli-17. bonisa.

Kwiimpahla zesitrato, amantombazana eSiliva anemigaqo: I-Spandex shorts kufuneka ifakwe phantsi kwee-miniskirts kunye ne-camisoles phantsi kwee-tops eziphantsi. Ngolunye usuku ndafumana ihempe entsha, kwaye yayine-V-neck ephantsi, ngoko ke udadewethu wayengandivumeli ukuba ndinxibe ngaphandle kwecami, uSydney uthi. Ayikhange ibukeke intle njengoko yenzayo ngaphandle kwayo, kodwa oh kulungile.

Njengamantombazana amaninzi akwiminyaka yakhe, uSydney ungumntu othanda umthengisi Forever 21, ikhonkco elinemfashini elilungiselelwe abasetyhini abancinci kunye nabakwishumi elivisayo abadala. Umama wakhe mva nje umthengele ilokhwe emnyama ebukekayo, elingana nefomu kula venkile, kwaye uSydney uyithanda ngokupheleleyo.

Inomtsalane ngokwenene, utsho, kodwa andivumelekanga ukuba ndiyinxibe esikolweni. Umama wakhe uyamvumela ukuba ayinxibe kwitheko lesidlo sangokuhlwa sosapho okanye omnye umsebenzi ogadiweyo.

Ndamthengela kuba sele esondela kulaa minyaka apho kukho umnqweno wokuba yintombi eyomeleleyo, enomtsalane, esakhasayo, utshilo uPaula Silver, kwaye ndiyayixhasa loo nto. Ukhangeleka ngathi sisigidi seerandi kuyo.

Ukuthetha phakathi kwefashoni

Iingcebiso ezivela kuPalo Alto umtshato kunye nonyango lwentsapho uCarol Campbell malunga namantombazana aphakathi kunye nempahla

Phambi kokuya kudederhu lweevenkile: Misela imithetho, misela ukuba zeziphi iivenkile ezingasikelwanga mda kunye nexabiso loxinzelelo kwinkangeleko yabantu abadumileyo
Yiva imbono yephakathi: Mcele ukuba achaze into ayithandayo malunga nento engafanelekanga; impendulo yakhe isenokutyhila umbandela, onjengomfanekiso womzimba, ofuna ingqalelo
Khuthaza ukunxiba - kodwa ekhaya: Ukuzama ukwenza izimonyo, iimpahla kunye nezithende eziphakamileyo yindlela elungileyo yokuba amantombazana azame iindima kwaye acinge ukuba sele ekhulile.
Impahla yintetho: Kubantwana abanobuchule, kubalulekile ukuziva ukhethekile; khuthaza imvelaphi ekukhetheni, ukuthunga kunye nokufikelela
Musa ukuvala umdla kwifashoni: Amantombazana anokufuna ukuphuhlisa kunye nokwandisa ukuthanda kwawo ngokugcina ijenali yesitayile okanye i-scrapbook.




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